Wednesday, November 17, 2010
Friday, November 12, 2010
Dear Neil,
Thank you for your concern for my experiencing in a passive aggressive relationship. My husband is definitely a PA and before he took off and leave our home on 1 July, he put the blame on me and said that he needed time off. Two weeks later, he told me God had sent him a nice woman who is a good communicator and she loves him very much and he wants to give her a chance. He said he wants to divorce me although just five years ago he told me that I would be his last woman for he was so in love with me and enjoyed doing things with me. Now he claimed that I was the one who pushed him away and he couldn't take it anymore.
In late August, he would come home once or twice in the morning before he went to work just to be intimate with me. I told him I love him and hope that he would give our marriage a chance. He said he will consider. Since then he will come home about twice a week in the morning and spent about twenty minutes in bed with me before he rushed to work. Other than that, he would not see me in other time or take me out although he said he will make arrangements.
He is now staying with that woman but he told me recently that he is depressed and couldn't sleep at night. He also said that he is not always staying with her; sometimes he would stay with his parents. I told me he could come home. He said he will try but it never happened.
Although I love him very much, and after these months of separation from him I had done quite a lot of reflection and realized that he is a typical PA. His sole interest is about himself. He said that he is a sensitive man and I am the one that hurt his feelings; but he was the one who always never kept his promises and worst still always gave me the silent treatments whenever he broke his promises. I had lost 10kg in July alone and he was showing very much concern about it.
Should I keep the marriage? He has left our home and yet he told me to be patient and may be one day he might just return. I am confused and to be honest, I am beginning not to trust his words like before. Should I still buy your ebook?
Thank you
Esterina
On 08-Oct-2010, at 2:27 PM, Neil Warner wrote:
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